When Colin Powell worked for President Reagan, they were discussing a particular defense policy. Reagan stated his position. Powell adamantly disagreed. Reagan let Powell do it his way. Powell’s plan failed miserably. At a press conference, Reagan was attacked by the press for the obvious failure. With Powell looking on, Reagan said, “I take full responsibility for the failure.” When he looked to the side, the general had tears in his eyes. As Powell left the room, he told one of the cabinet members, “I’ll do anything for that man.”
When was the last time you stood by someone, not because they were a success, but because they were a failure? I have a dear friend who lives 325 miles away. He made a bad choice in his life. I drove 325 miles one day and took him to a basketball game. When the game was over, I took him home, then drove 325 miles back to Gainesville. He called the next day. “You forgot to preach to me,” he said. “Nope,” I replied. “You needed a friend more than a sermon.” Go find someone who has failed. Then go to them. Don’t say a word. Just stand by their side.